patience..we needed this virtue even more..taking care of a baby is really a big challenge..especially for first timers like us..the stories i have been hearing are true..sleepless nights can be inevitable..and all will never be the same again..our focus now is on the baby..
they say that crying is normal for babies..its their only way of communication for this stage of their life..it really breaks us when he cries..we'll leave everything behind and do everything in our capacity just to see him well and smiling..and prevent him from any harm..maybe that's what they call parent's instinct..and we're still learning..and we're still always figuring out what to do..what's the best thing to do..we need to understand human nature at its raw stage..
the road of parenting surely will be long and winding..bumps could be on the way..the trip may not always be smooth sailing..but no matter what..we'll still keep on moving..pass over any of the obstacles..up to the challenges..the road of parenting surely will be long and winding..and we already have taken the first steps..together we'll walk the miles..at the end of the road..we'll see him grown up..patting our back..
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Saturday, December 3, 2011
Monday, February 14, 2011
let me see you smile..
i promised GOD..
i'll make you happy..
i'll take care of you..
always..
but why..
failure i am..
insensitivity..
tears are in your eyes..
please hush..
it breaks me..
wish i could turn back time..
never my intent..hurt you..
sorry i am..
let me see you smile..
i'll make you happy..
i'll take care of you..
always..
but why..
failure i am..
insensitivity..
tears are in your eyes..
please hush..
it breaks me..
wish i could turn back time..
never my intent..hurt you..
sorry i am..
let me see you smile..
Monday, January 4, 2010
can't cry hard enough
on my way back to diliman after the christmas and new year vacation..i just feel like crying..i don't know the reason..but my emotions seems to be different..is it because of where i'm going to or because of what i left back..i can't tell..and the problem is i can't..maybe i forgot to..i want to shed some tears..but how do you do it..i even can't remember the last time..it's not that i'm suppresing that side of my personality..maybe i'm not that type..drama is not a piscean's way of coping i guess..i admit the escapist persona i became..how do actors do it..i have no talent for that..i just wonder..
According to wiki:
"To cry is to shed tears as a response to an emotional state in humans. The act of crying has been defined as "a complex secretomotor phenomenon characterized by the shedding of tears from the lacrimal apparatus, without any irritation of the ocular structures". The medical term for this is to lacrimate, which also refers to non-emotional shedding of "tears".
A neuronal connection between the lacrimal gland (tear duct) and the areas of the human brain involved with emotion was established. No other animals are thought to produce tears in response to emotional states, although this is disputed by some scientists.
According to a study of over 300 adults, on average, men cry once every month, and women cry at least five times per month, especially before and during the menstrual cycle, when crying can increase up to 5 times the normal rate, often without obvious reasons (such as depression or sadness). In many cultures, it is more socially acceptable for women and children to cry than with men.
Tears produced during emotional crying have a chemical composition which differs from other types of tear: they contain significantly greater quantities of hormones prolactin, adrenocorticotropic hormone, Leu-enkephalin and the elements potassium and manganese.
Crying is often considered to be the opposite of laughing."
if that's the truth..maybe i'm abnormal when it comes to this aspect..maybe i should learn how to..i need to be more expressive of what i feel sometimes..that way i could understand more myself..what i want and not..i should be less insensitive maybe..or maybe culture influences unconsciously dominates..
but right now..i feel better that i have written something about crying..maybe writing is a form of tears for me..for me to feel better..the secretomotor thing maybe is not that dominant..but i would be glad that if that time comes..if crying comes my way..i know it's part of being human..it's normal..i should be afraid if not..people deserve to be happy but happiness maybe is best felt when you have experienced the other side of it..
According to wiki:
"To cry is to shed tears as a response to an emotional state in humans. The act of crying has been defined as "a complex secretomotor phenomenon characterized by the shedding of tears from the lacrimal apparatus, without any irritation of the ocular structures". The medical term for this is to lacrimate, which also refers to non-emotional shedding of "tears".
A neuronal connection between the lacrimal gland (tear duct) and the areas of the human brain involved with emotion was established. No other animals are thought to produce tears in response to emotional states, although this is disputed by some scientists.
According to a study of over 300 adults, on average, men cry once every month, and women cry at least five times per month, especially before and during the menstrual cycle, when crying can increase up to 5 times the normal rate, often without obvious reasons (such as depression or sadness). In many cultures, it is more socially acceptable for women and children to cry than with men.
Tears produced during emotional crying have a chemical composition which differs from other types of tear: they contain significantly greater quantities of hormones prolactin, adrenocorticotropic hormone, Leu-enkephalin and the elements potassium and manganese.
Crying is often considered to be the opposite of laughing."
if that's the truth..maybe i'm abnormal when it comes to this aspect..maybe i should learn how to..i need to be more expressive of what i feel sometimes..that way i could understand more myself..what i want and not..i should be less insensitive maybe..or maybe culture influences unconsciously dominates..
but right now..i feel better that i have written something about crying..maybe writing is a form of tears for me..for me to feel better..the secretomotor thing maybe is not that dominant..but i would be glad that if that time comes..if crying comes my way..i know it's part of being human..it's normal..i should be afraid if not..people deserve to be happy but happiness maybe is best felt when you have experienced the other side of it..
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